Yo Mika!

Lollipop is the perfect theme tune for this blog! It hits pretty much every point I'm gonna try to make. :P

Love's really gonna get'cha down. So let it go! ^.^; But seriously. I bet you've read on my Facebook that "Amber is cutting the last few threads of a tattered relationship." And it's true. But that doesn't mean I'm angry, it doesn't mean that I'm vengeful or even interested in someone new. It means that I'm finally detaching from what it'd mean to get hurt. It hurts to think I have to hide in the shadows about anything. I'd rather blatantly lie or be completely honest.

This movement wasn't brought on by what you think. Really. Friends like Nate and Reynolds, friends who hardly know the story of my life, are here for me. So why would I waste my time in the dumps over it when they have the kindness to be here for me. This is beginning to sound like a shout-out blog...

Another topic in the song Lollipop is what 'Momma' tells you. That's huge. All my life good 'ol Mom's told me that men aren't worth it. And while that was cryptic to me at the age I learned it, I'm glad I learned it. I understand the issues she had with trust and the problem she had with depending on someone. It's important to be able to stand on your own feet before you go looking for someone else. Maybe I didn't quite grasp the 'men aren't worth it' message, but I got the idea. :P

Another one of my favorite things is loving from a distance. It's a bit of a creeper thing to do if you get obsessed, but if you don't, you have that butterflies feeling in your gut just like you always had over Him or Her in high school. That's a good feeling to have...

If she loves you, let her go! Cause love only gets you down.